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Empowering people to make strengthening choices

Seeing People Deeply

Seeing People Deeply

So often we look at people and even interact with them but we don’t really see them. This is something that the columnist David Brooks has talked about lately. He’s been alarmed by the growing isolation and social disconnectedness in our society in recent years. In fact, he’s said, “Many of our society’s great problems […]

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A Circle of Healing

A Circle of Healing

I recently learned about a Rabbi by the name of Sharon Brous, a founder of a Jewish Community in Los Angeles. Rabbi Brous recently wrote a book entitled, “The Amen Effect: Ancient Wisdom to Mend our Broken Hearts and the World” in which she writes about a circle of healing and underscores the importance of […]

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Do You Relate from Fear, Duty, or Love?

Do You Relate from Fear, Duty, or Love?

So much of the quality of your relationships has less to do with other people and more to do with who and how you are in relation to other people. What are the attitudes and perceptions that you come from as you interact with others? In truth, you can do a lot to build healthy […]

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Recovering From a High School Shooting

Recovering From a High School Shooting

A sad story in modern life, at least in America, are all of the mass shootings in our public schools. As a psychologist I worked with students and their families who were directly affected by two different shootings. This is a story of how one young man recovered from a high school shooting. A Wonderful […]

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I’m Not Okay Stories

I’m Not Okay Stories

We tell ourselves stories every day. Furthermore, these stories are powerful determiners of how we feel and act in everyday life. And today I want to talk about a common story that many people repeat to themselves. I call it the “I’m not okay” story. Unfortunately, it is a story that undercuts the happiness and […]

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Rebuilding Trust by Managing My Anxiety

Rebuilding Trust by Managing My Anxiety

I recently wrote about a key moment in which I had to make a decision about how to handle a Saturday evening. The choices I made were relatively small in the grand scheme of things but allowed me to experience an enjoyable evening with my wife that could easily have been otherwise. Although small, such […]

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Letting Go of Shame by Reframing My Story

Letting Go of Shame by Reframing My Story

I recall a personal experience from when I was a boy. I was about 14 years of age. A group of us were playing basketball in the backyard of our neighbors. Jeff, the neighbor boy, got really mad about something and ran into his house. The game broke up and I walked over to our […]

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Managing Anger: A Misunderstood Emotion

Managing Anger: A Misunderstood Emotion

I’ve written quite a bit, recently and in the past, about managing our negative emotions. Learning to do so is a big part of finding peace, growing in emotional intelligence and creating more enriching relationships. Today, I want to help you understand anger, particularly the positive aspects of anger and why it’s an essential emotion […]

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What My Customers and Students are Saying

“Roger is a great instructor and leader. Really love his way of teaching and the great structure of the course. His experience and practical examples are really helpful. I found especially the questions in the handouts on team diagnostics very useful. If you are leading a team (does not matter how big), start with this course to understand employee engagement for everyone’s success.”

Thomas Seidel

“I find it very useful, I’m not much of a process person, I’ve always been very task focused, but I’m recognizing the value of pulling back, seeing the big picture, and seeing that the most important things get accomplished through others. I wish I had learned the things I learned here many years ago.”

Nicolas Perez

“I am new to the leadership role without any formal training and this course was exactly what I needed to explain to me what is expected of me in my role, and helped me to discover what skills I need to build on.”

Jane McKenzie

“Great overview of leadership styles and activities, including worksheets to help me understand myself and organize my efforts.”

Brian Kramp

“This is the best, informative leadership-based course I’ve taken. You won’t regret your time by joining this course. The speaker is so talented and good with his knowledge. I’d like to watch more videos of him in future. ”

Shreya Rao

“Very informative and well laid out course.”

David Innes

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